Wherein I casually regurgitate internet musings of things I admire but could never truly know; such as post-modern architecture and group sex.
predators literally love sex positivity and are the main supporters of it i just cant stress this enough obviously it started out with good intentions but its such an easy thing for evil manipulative people to latch onto and have people think theyre doing things under the guise of sexual freedom
This is only partially true.
Yes, some predators do believe sex positivity is to their benefit. However most predators rely on the status quo to give them power and social pressure over women.
And yes, I’ve seen them infiltrate sex positive communities from time to time. In fact, it was one such predator that prevented me from joining with a specific enclave of tribal polyamorists. Quite frankly, I wanted no part of any club he was in.
However, what many outside of sex-positive movements don’t realize is that sex positivity ultimately removes the power that predators depend on; Guilt, shame, fear, pressure, and loneliness.
Sex Positivity doesn’t mean everybody has to have sex with whoever wants to. Sex Positivity means nobody else gets to force their version of sex on you without your permission.
Sex Positivity doesn’t mean Monogamy is wrong or unnatural. It means that monogamy isn’t the only thing that’s right or natural.
Sex Positivity doesn’t mean you’re required to be attracted to everybody. It means you’re allowed to feel attractive no matter what you look like.
Sex Positivity doesn’t mean everyone has to be bisexual. It means nobody can shame you for being gay, straight, bi, asexual, pansexual, transsexual, etc.
And most importantly, above all else, the one most sacred rule of Sex Positivity: No Means No. Period.
Sex Positivity is about not letting the predators make the rules anymore. Granted, it won’t happen overnight, but it’s happening. And it’s for your benefit whether you’re a part of it or not.